Suggested reading for Newbies
Tips for Newbies General Here
Tips for Newbies Guys Here
It's not compulsory reading, but it all helps!
We encourage EVERYONE to review our rules and guidelines. All members who attend our events, especially for the first time MUST follow all the guidelines listed below, to protect the comfort, well-being, and integrity of all our erotic guests.
The goal here is to feel safe, sexy and liberated!
We all know that we are RESPONSIBLE for our BEHAVIOUR... "NO" means "NO"! The Butterfly Club was created to allow like-minded people to meet in a safe, friendly and sexy environment.
We encourage a space for Guys, Ladies, Couples to tease, flirt and play!
All members must be RESPECTFUL toward all parties.
ASK before initiating. Remember: Some members are exploring certain areas for the first time and are at a voyeuristic stage.
MEMBERSHIP is COMPULSORY:
- The Party Venue does NOT have an open door policy.
- New members must bring Photo ID and Address with them on their first visit to the Party Venue
CLUB SECURITY MEMBERSHIP POLICY CONFIRMING YOUR IDENTITY
Each Applicant must show on their first visit ID that shows a clear face picture (accepted items are a drivers lic or passport)
Seperate ID that shows your address (eg.Utility bill or Bank letter) ,we only admit persons who trust us with that very personal information to join our Club,
Bona Fide Tourists / visitors to the UK a passport will suffice
- The Owners/Operators and Management or Event Operator on the night reserve the right to refuse entrance to the Party Venue without explanation.
- No Persons Under Age are allowed in to the Venue under any circumstances.
- Membership is open to Couples,Single guys ,and Single females
- ALCOHOL: The policy on Alcohol is simply that you must Bring your Own, we store it behind the Bar in a Numbered / Named Bin, we chill it if required, and serve it back to you.
We Do Not Charge for the Bar Service if soft drink mixers are required we charge a small fee per serve NOTE: Only ALCOHOL may be brought into the club you are not permitted to bring NON ALCOHOLIC Drinks
- DRUGS: Our Place 4 Fun enforces a strictly drug free environment. Please do NOT bring / or use drugs of ANY kind on the premises. You WILL be immediately evicted if you are found in possession of drugs .
- ADULT CHOICE: All persons attending The Butterfly Club do so freely by choice and are therefore free to express themselves without inhibitions. There are no paid persons or entertainers at The Butterfly Club. Paying an entrance fee or for Membership, simply implies that you wish to be in the company of likeminded adults.
- PROMOTING and TOUTING: PROMOTING Your Own or Someone Elses PRIVATE EVENT OR PARTY or INDEED OTHER CLUBS, within Our Venue will result in INSTANT Membership Forfeiture.
If you prefer another place or club etc, then we would rather you attend that place or club than ours.
- SOLICITING: Any persons found offering sexual services for reward will be immediately removed
- NO ESCORTS: - NO PROSTITUTION! Please report any offenders to staff.
- TOILETS: Only one person at a time is permitted to use the toilets Men are NOT allowed to use the ladies toilets. This is strictly enforced. Any persons/couples/groups found abusing these rules will be asked to leave immediately.
- PERSONAL HYGIENE: Please use the bins provided throughout the venue for tissues or wipes. A special message for everyone. (wink!) Personal Hygiene is a must for close encounters of a "Third Kind".. So... if you cannot afford to buy/use deodorants - soaps/toothpaste etc., please see staff when you arrive and we will make an announcement regarding your plight and have a whip around for you!
- DRESS CODE: Females - Sexy eg. Licra, Lingerie, Stockings,Corsets,Body Suits, Micro Skirts All very Nice, but Ladies is really up to you Males -Neat / Tidy. No - absolutely NO admittance for scruffy dress/clothes - either/any sex. Dress Code is Smart Casual Clean attire.
- NO Baseball Caps ,Hats, or Hoods.
- NO Ripped Style Jeans, Tracksuits or Dirty clothes or Shorts (clean smart jeans are ok )
- Trainers if worn must be Smart
- NO CHEWING GUM
- NO AGGRESSION
- NO ATTITUDE
- NO INTOXICATED PEOPLE
- AS USUAL NO ALWAYS MEANS NO
- Sexy people in Sexy surroundings ,please make an effort with your dress and grooming,
- GUESTS: MEMBERS may only on Pre Approval bring Guests! please in all cases contact us prior to arriving with guests, all guests must be known to the members who are introducing them.
No one will be admitted to the Venue without pre registration of their details this includes unregistered guests or friends,Members may only bring a guest once you have attended yourself on a regular basis and are known to staff.
We apply this rule to everyone, and apply NEW variations from time to time the responsibility of the behaviour of the guest rests with the Member who brings them.
- Standard Adult Etiquette and Rules Apply.
- Always ask first!
- NO means NO!
- NO pressure - NO pestering. NO exceptions!
- RESPECT: The party organisers ask all attendees to please show the utmost respect for the venue and all persons present. Aggressive behaviour will NOT be tolerated and will result in the perpetrator(s) being asked to leave the venue immediately. Our aim is to foster and encourage a friendly and polite environment where everyone is at ease and relaxed. If you have any concerns during your visit please advise the organisers immediately and they will deal with the situation with the utmost discretion. If you are asked to leave please leave quietly with pride and without hindrance. If you fail to do this your membership may be terminated. All attendees are asked to arrive and leave quietly
- SMOKING: We operate a strictly NO SMOKING policy inside the Club There are areas Outside the Venue to "Smoke with discretion" To eliminate public nuisance outside the venue,we will be enforcing the below policy
- We reserve the right from time to time to restrict the numbers of "GROUPS of persons" allowed outside at any one time "Please Respect Our Rules"
- TICKET MALES: A Ticket Male is a term used to describe a well known Ruse used within the swingers scene,a Ticket is a Female taken to a Swingers Club by a Male to enable or ease his entry, often at a considerable cost advantage .
The pretence is that he is seen as part of a couple,however the Female will generally sit near the bar or away from the action whilst the Male takes advantage of his position. In some cases the Female companion may have been paid to accompany the Male.
Female tickets are well versed to have excuses such as "Ive just come on" or "Im not in the mood to play tonight" if they are questioned,
Be warned Tickets are not tolerated at The Butterfly Club. Whilst there is no requirement to participate at any event the Rule is this:
- If you are attending as a Couple and the Lady chooses not to participate then the male is not permitted to participate either,
Some may think that sounds harsh, it is and we enforce this rule, and will revoke memberships if neccessary,the need for the Rule is plain to see,many a good night can be spoiled by the actions of these devious males.
- VENUE NUMBERS:
- We reserve the right to restrict the numbers on any night at the descretion of the operators on the night.
- SECURITY: The Owners and Management or Event Operator on the night reserve the right to request that your bags may be searched on entry to and exit from the Party Venue.
- MOBILE PHONES/CAMERAS/RECORDING DEVICES: The use of Mobile Phones/Cameras and/or any form of recording device within the venue is strictly PROHIBITED! You must leave your mobile phone in the cloakroom. Don't even think about bringing a recorder or digital camera into the venue for clandestine photography or recording. Not only will you be prosecuted under the Privacy Act by the persons you photograph, you will also be prosecuted by The Butterfly Club
- WARNING!! WHEN YOU SIGN OUR ENTRY DISCLAIMER WE AUTOMATICALLY RESERVE THE RIGHT TO DESTROY FILM OR TAPES OR ERASE DATA FROM ANY DEVICES THAT ARE USED IN THIS VENUE. THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY SUBSEQUENT DAMAGE CAUSED TO THE DEVICES WILL BE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE OWNER OF THE GOODS.
NOTE: YOUR MEMBERSHIP WILL ALSO BE TERMINATED IMMEDIATELY